During the BET Awards in 2003 I witnessed the makings of a substantial relationship between two overly focused individuals willing to give and take time for each other in the thick of accomplishing their personalized greatness. I was the personal help to Beyonce while she prepared for the introduction of her new single Deja Vu. I can recall having the strain on repeat throughout the duration of my flying from Chicago to LA and feeling captivated by the 808′